I had the same experience with these guides. I thought the stupid picutures on the cover were just...well...stupid. And the cheesy pics inside? How could anyone learn from such a juvenile book? Well, a few years ago, I read someone's copy of Head First Design Patterns, and I found myself dead wrong. It was really enjoyable and a great intro to the GOF patterns. There's a lot of redundant info (intentionally) presented in different ways for people who learn differently. I breezed right through it and ony fell asleep a few times (usually when in bed).

I haven't read any other Head First books, but my experience with that one was good.
I feel your pain with J2EE. We are converting our CORBA structure to EJBs. I was excited until I found out we were going EJB 2.1 instead of EJB 3.0. It's still better than using CORBA in a Java-only environment, though.