I think that you've confused 'help' with 'hand-holding'.
We won't hold your hand, and walk you through things. We won't do your homework for you, or just write all the code and hand it over.
We
will explain, or point out problems where your code is wrong - to help you learn.
If you're not interested in
learning how to solve your problems, there are places like rent-a-coder that will do it for you - but we will help you learn, for free(something that I feel is more valuable anyways).
Another tip that I feel obligated to mention is that you need to explain very clearly - most of us have day jobs, and spend our days working at those - so when we are on these forums, we're more willing to help people who have written well-thought out posts that detail
every little thing that they did to encounter the problem they are having(or give a code sample, reduced to the minimum required to demonstrate the problem).
I've also noticed that some of your posts fall into the "give me the code" category - like
this one - we will not write all the code for you and hand it over - we will only help you learn how to do it yourself.