What do you do when it's over?

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What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 08:00 PM

So my girlfriend and i broke up 6 weeks ago, after 3 years.

tried drinking, breaking things,drinking and breaking things, staring at the ceiling and pretending this is all just a bad dream.

An now i'm curioius how other people deal with this sorta thing?
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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 08:08 PM

Day 1.I usually go outside and try to drink with people i dont know and talk about any drunk stupid things.<- more like week 1
Week 2: Go to a mall or something and talk to every single girl you like and ask something stupid or tell them the story about the break up. To see what they say.
Week 3: depending on answer i try to talk to her again if she answers i say ok i know what i did wrong but that was not my fault and good bye *giving her no chance to answer*.<- on my case usually is a lie
Day 15: get a new girl , just for a week or so nothing serious.
Day 23: i go back to my life
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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 08:09 PM

Hang out with friends.
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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 08:15 PM

Celebrate. Oh, wait, I also had to move back in with my mom, so the party ended. :(
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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 08:16 PM

If the party is over, then where in the hell may I ask is all of this damn confetti coming from! It's un-real!
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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 08:25 PM

View PostNeoTifa, on 2 Sep, 2009 - 07:15 PM, said:

Celebrate. Oh, wait, I also had to move back in with my mom, so the party ended. :(


difference is...i'm still hopelessly in love with her
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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 08:40 PM

View PostDamage, on 2 Sep, 2009 - 07:25 PM, said:

View PostNeoTifa, on 2 Sep, 2009 - 07:15 PM, said:

Celebrate. Oh, wait, I also had to move back in with my mom, so the party ended. :(


difference is...i'm still hopelessly in love with her


That happen to me and two months later, as soon as i got over her she came back to me.

How long ago did it happen?
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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 08:46 PM

6 weeks :P
she's stubborn though :) so not much chance of her changing her mind i think.She's convinced herself this is for the best and even though she may want to she won't let herself.

:) no point asking for advice thats why i'm just curious how everyone else deals with it.
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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 09:05 PM

You know what...my response was really not very helpful so I'll get rid of that and just say, I'm sorry this happened to you. :(

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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 09:33 PM

View PostDamage, on 2 Sep, 2009 - 07:00 PM, said:

So my girlfriend and i broke up 6 weeks ago, after 3 years.

tried drinking, breaking things,drinking and breaking things, staring at the ceiling and pretending this is all just a bad dream.

An now i'm curioius how other people deal with this sorta thing?



here we go again...

let me start by saying that i'm sorry to hear that. from personal experience i know it's tough, but i promise you will get through it. and many others will say the same thing.

drinking will numb the pain, but it will come back as you can tell. i tried smoking and it did help me, but i don't suggest that you start smoking, specially for that reason because since nicotine is a psychological drug, quitting smoking after starting because of a broken heart will only tear your heart even more.

breaking stuff helps a little but as i'm sure you can tell, it's only for a short time. dreams? let's just say i don't dream anymore so yeah...

okay, enough of that side. the best advice i can give you is take one day at a time. don't focus on what you lost, but what you have to get done and just do what YOU want. under no circumstances should you dwell on her. also, try to spend as much time as you can with your friends, but remember that you shouldn't depend on them that much because they won't always be there. don't be like, "oh i'm waiting for her to come back" because chances are she won't. it happens to everyone and it hurts, but this too shall pass.

also, remember this that you can't make another person happy unless your happy...

if you need to talk, i'll try to be here for you too.

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View PostDamage, on 2 Sep, 2009 - 07:46 PM, said:

6 weeks :P
she's stubborn though :) so not much chance of her changing her mind i think.She's convinced herself this is for the best and even though she may want to she won't let herself.

:) no point asking for advice thats why i'm just curious how everyone else deals with it.


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if she says that she wants to, but she doesn't act on it, then it's all bull shit so it's not even worth stressing over. and only time can tell if this is the best thing. worse comes to worse she'll realize what she lost and it will be her loss, but like i said earlier, don't wait for her to come back. just do your own thing at this time.

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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 10:32 PM

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This is probably the weirdest thing i have heard so far.
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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 10:43 PM

View Postponcho4all, on 2 Sep, 2009 - 09:32 PM, said:

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This is probably the weirdest thing i have heard so far.


no not really. i've heard worse. it's funny actually because that's one of the reasons why i kept rejecting her for 3 years, but whatever. this thread isn't about me it's about damage and us helping him out however we can.


just think. now you can have the best relationship for a male geek-your computer and a box of tissues :D

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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 10:58 PM

Yea sorry for the divertion, computerfox is right, you need to see pass this.
Maybe start a new project, this could help you take your mind of this situation
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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 11:02 PM

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Re: What do you do when it's over?

Posted 02 September 2009 - 11:05 PM

View Postsupersloth, on 2 Sep, 2009 - 10:02 PM, said:




really? really? of all the situations can't you be nice at least in this one sloth. seriously dude, i'm sure you've had a broken heart...

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