[CTphpnwb]

baavgai, on 17 May 2010 - 02:09 PM, said:

CTphpnwb, on 17 May 2010 - 12:59 PM, said:

You're saying that a fat mate can be a good person. I'm saying that they're narcissistic, and that narcissism is harmful, both physically and emotionally to their partners. Not exactly what I'd call a good person.

A fat person is more narcissistic than a beautiful person? I don't think that word means what you think it means.

A fat person thinks you should love them for what's on the "inside" with no regard for their actions, many of which are detrimental to all those around them, especially their partner. If that isn't narcissistic, then nothing is!

[baavgai]

CTphpnwb, on 17 May 2010 - 01:08 PM, said:

There's a reason we've evolved to prefer mates who are fit.

Incorrect. Healthy, yes. "Fit?" It's subjective. What matters is fitness to survive child birth. Hyper skinny woman are far more in danger, in that respect.

[CTphpnwb]

BenignDesign, on 17 May 2010 - 02:10 PM, said:

They are no more narcissistic than someone obsessed with being thin. And honestly, I don't care what she looks like at 19. When she's forty, her tits are going to stare at the floor.

You haven't been to any of the gyms I've been to! Lots of women over forty look great to me, but they are fit.

[Christoph]

Well next time you find yourself thinking a "fat" woman is attractive ask to take her to the clinic first and find out if she is healthy or not. Then date her.

CTphpnwb, on 17 May 2010 - 11:16 AM, said:

BenignDesign, on 17 May 2010 - 02:10 PM, said:

They are no more narcissistic than someone obsessed with being thin. And honestly, I don't care what she looks like at 19. When she's forty, her tits are going to stare at the floor.

You haven't been to any of the gyms I've been to! Lots of women over forty look great to me, but they are fit.

And they probably have very wealthy husbands and can afford to go the gym all the time You're screwed.

[baavgai]

CTphpnwb, on 17 May 2010 - 01:13 PM, said:

A fat person thinks you should love them for what's on the "inside" with no regard for their actions, many of which are detrimental to all those around them, especially their partner.

That's a whole lot of projection there. Fat people are fat, they're not demanding anything from you.

Anyone should be judged by what's on the inside. We have limited control over our appearance. We have complete control of our behavior and how we treat those around us. Granted, if you all you have going for you is looks, you'd be against such an idea.

[NeoTifa]

NoBrain, on 17 May 2010 - 01:11 PM, said:

most of the fat persons i know don`t really like them self let alone be a narcissistic

Bitch, I'm sexy!

[CTphpnwb]

baavgai, on 17 May 2010 - 02:18 PM, said:

CTphpnwb, on 17 May 2010 - 01:13 PM, said:

A fat person thinks you should love them for what's on the "inside" with no regard for their actions, many of which are detrimental to all those around them, especially their partner.

That's a whole lot of projection there. Fat people are fat, they're not demanding anything from you.

Anyone should be judged by what's on the inside. We have limited control over our appearance. We have complete control of our behavior and how we treat those around us. Granted, if you all you have going for you is looks, you'd be against such an idea.

No, it's not, and fat people are very demanding. I'm trying to get back into shape, and the better shape I get into, the more demanding they are. It's like they feel that if they can make everyone around them fat then they don't have to do anything. Then there's all the extra health care they demand, driving up costs for the rest of us.

As for control of your appearance, your shape is entirely dependent on what you eat and how much you exercise. Hardly what I'd call limited control there!

[Choscura]

Holy shit, there are 8 people reading this right now?

And I have to cast my vote with baavgai, fit is subjective. 'fit' for an eskimo is going to be completely different from 'fit' for a kenyan. Both will be different from 'fit' for a khmer, none of them will be 'fit' in the same way as a hindi and all will be 'unfit' in the eyes of the germans. or at least one german with a moustache that will become a popular pubic haircut 50 years after he dies. Ver den pfennig nicht ehrt, ist des Juden nicht wert, ja?

edit: Mein Spelling!

This post has been edited by Choscura: 17 May 2010 - 12:27 PM

[raziel_]

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Bitch, I'm sexy!

your not fat so stay out of this

[CTphpnwb]

Christoph, on 17 May 2010 - 02:17 PM, said:

Well next time you find yourself thinking a "fat" woman is attractive ask to take her to the clinic first and find out if she is healthy or not. Then date her.

CTphpnwb, on 17 May 2010 - 11:16 AM, said:

BenignDesign, on 17 May 2010 - 02:10 PM, said:

They are no more narcissistic than someone obsessed with being thin. And honestly, I don't care what she looks like at 19. When she's forty, her tits are going to stare at the floor.

You haven't been to any of the gyms I've been to! Lots of women over forty look great to me, but they are fit.

And they probably have very wealthy husbands and can afford to go the gym all the time You're screwed.

LOL! That $20/month is a killer, eh? And three trips per week!!! Huge hit to my free time. Not.

[NeoTifa]

NoBrain, on 17 May 2010 - 01:24 PM, said:

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Bitch, I'm sexy!

your not fat so stay out of this

[BenignDesign]

[macosxnerd101]

BenignDesign, on 17 May 2010 - 03:10 PM, said:

They are no more narcissistic than someone obsessed with being thin. And honestly, I don't care what she looks like at 19. When she's forty, her tits are going to stare at the floor.

Pics or it didn't happen.

Cristoph said:

And they probably have very wealthy husbands and can afford to go the gym all the time You're screwed.

That's exactly when it happens. Haven't you heard of Desperate Housewives?

[CTphpnwb]

BenignDesign, on 17 May 2010 - 02:27 PM, said:

I really expected something better from you. Certainly, with over 60% of Americans being obese, I expect my opinion to be in the minority, but I would have thought there would be better arguments against it than these.

[PsychoCoder]

CTphpnwb, on 17 May 2010 - 10:13 AM, said:

baavgai, on 17 May 2010 - 02:09 PM, said:

CTphpnwb, on 17 May 2010 - 12:59 PM, said:

You're saying that a fat mate can be a good person. I'm saying that they're narcissistic, and that narcissism is harmful, both physically and emotionally to their partners. Not exactly what I'd call a good person.

A fat person is more narcissistic than a beautiful person? I don't think that word means what you think it means.

A fat person thinks you should love them for what's on the "inside" with no regard for their actions, many of which are detrimental to all those around them, especially their partner. If that isn't narcissistic, then nothing is!

Sorry but I don't think I've read a more ignorant comment in a very long time. It's the skinny "I'm better than you" type of people that are the most narcissistic, and I cannot believe you don't see it. In my life I've yet to see some skinny "hot" (though "hot" is completely subjective) woman that wasn't a completely self absorbed, egotistical twat.

People who spend all the time at the gym, are ruining kids of the next generation, making them think if you're over a size 1 then you're fat. And if you don't think that's the truth then you must be one of "those people". When you judge someone solely based on outward appearance then you're just as egotistical and shallow as anyone, and if you take that as an insult then it only proves my point.