no2pencil, on 19 July 2011 - 07:28 PM, said:
Gavisann, on 19 July 2011 - 12:20 PM, said:
Grabbing a cats scruff? Sometimes you have to. Unless your cat really likes to be held (& most do not) you can't just ask them to wait a moment. When they get antsy they start flailing & clawing, & doing everything that they can to get away. Once you grab their scruff they know who's in control.
Anytime our cats decide they are going to push the limits & jump onto a counter, or bite feet, we grab them by the scruff & scold them. Just like said, it's what their mothers did, so it puts them in perspective. Plus they know what's gonna happen when they mis-behave & it helps to keep them in check.
In fact I only scruff our Orange cat Melman when he decides to start bullying the other cats. Mostly my elder cat. He'll knock her down & stand over her, & he meows in a specific way, taunting her. When he bites her, he doesn't let go, he'll bite hard & deep, removing furr & causing blood. So when I hear her scream, if I come running & find furr all over, & in his mouth, he gets scruffed & ran under cold water. Best we can figure he's doing to get my attention, & from what we've researched cats don't make a distinction between positive & negative attention. So to not feed into his reason for causing such a situation, I only scold him when he does this repetitively, or when it's vicious enough that I want him to stop.
As for the kittens, like I said, I only scruff them when they are biting feet.
The one thing you never, ever, ever want to do is hit a cat in the head. Like a dog you sort of swat their nose & tell them no. Cats don't have the elongated face. You never ever strike a cat. The scruff is safer, & more meaningful form of situation control, & motherly parenting.
Grabbing is fine, because it isn't very tight.My concern is that some of those clips are tight.
Also, most of the reasons you listed there, explains why I am not a cat person.
This post has been edited by Gavisann: 19 July 2011 - 07:47 PM

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